“You are not a victim. No matter what you have been through,
you're still here. You may have been challenged, hurt, betrayed, beaten,
and discouraged, but nothing has defeated you.
You are still here! You have been delayed but not denied.
You are not a victim, you are a victor.
You have a history of victory.”― Steve Maraboli
Don't let people feel sorry for you. When you realize that people see you totally different than you see yourself it can be a wake up call. It can be sad too. Don't let it get to you. Shake it off. One thing is for sure you can not control people's opinion of you. You know who you are.
God gave you this life with an extra amount of grace. It's just life you can do it. You are still here so you are a victor.